remove some hardcoded 'localhost's from dev environment (PR #14801)

Trying to use a local test hostname other than localhost (e.g. discourse.test )for discourse development was difficult due the fact that localhost was hardcoded in a few places. This patch uses existing environment variables to allow a developer to use a different domain when developing.


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